Background:
Born in California and raised everywhere. With a father in construction "everywhere" really meant "everywhere" - throughout the US . Even today, as a well established and internationally recognized therapist & laughter coach, Annette Goodheart's odyssey continues. She has never stopped exploring the world around her or her co-inhabitants.
Her first "career" was as an artist.
Her first commission came at such a young age (13) she couldn't even be legally paid for it.
Working in oil, acrylic and watercolor, Annette's accomplished "life" as an artist spanned slightly more than two decades. The inherent loneliness of that world decided an inherently gregarious person to break back into this world. It began in 1970 with peer counseling and workshops in cathartic laughter and continues today as she coaches, guides, instructs and lectures on the positive benefits of laughter.
Annette Goodheart is one of life's rewarding "un-conventionals".
She lived on board her own sailboat in Santa Barbara harbor for thirteen years (whose construction she directed and which she christened the "TeeHee"). A motorcycle enthusiast and rider for fifteen years, she remains a first class scuba diver and gardener.
Her latest adventure has her moving lock, stock and computer, south to the country of Mexico and the old colonial city of San Miguel de Allende. There she plans to continue all her therapy, coaching, teaching (both laughter classes & art) with the large population of ex-patriots and the wonderful natives of San Miguel while continuing to travel the world doing Laughter Coach training.
While her proudest accomplishment is her own self-sufficiency, the most important thing to her is "connection"; connection with herself, with others and with the world in which she lives. The words she feels that best describe her most important personal qualities are "empathy" and "outrageousness".
With her two felines - Pauline and cross-eyed Shirley, & a six pound canine (a Maltese named Barbra) traveling companion-she looks ahead to a second book (on laughter and spirituality), seeing her first book ("Laughter Therapy: How to Laugh About Everything in Your Life That Isn't Really Funny") translated into Spanish, Dutch, Danish, German & Swedish (it's already out in Japanese), returning to art (with a focus on portraiture), and continuing to laugh her way around the globe.
Relaxed, convivial and a barely dormant (usually active) volcano of laughter Annette reflects, and wholeheartedly embraces, the joys of laughter which she preaches. For Annette Goodheart laughter isn't locked away in a folder marked "For Professional Use Only".it's always there and it's always ready to be shared.
Laugh Your Way to Health
Abused as children so that we have trouble touching people.
Are you alone? .. No, I am by myself.
She took a teddy bear, Charley, with her to a restaurant.
In an elevator, Charley became a topic of conversation.
Everyone needs an excuse to laugh, to be outrageous and playful.
The teddy encouraged/allowed others to join in.
Hugging Charlie put many people into an altered state.
Have you laughed so hard, you cried?
If you laugh with something in your mouth, it may come out your nose.
A person may laugh so hard they fall off a chair.
You may laugh so hard that you wet your pants.
Reasons why we Don't laugh:
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Belief Systems:
We must have a Reason ..
What's so funny, why are you laughing .. Challenged to explain .. deadens.)
Laughter is neither reasonable nor rational.
If we are waiting for a reason to laugh, we won't laugh much.
People rarely ask a baby why it is laughing.
As soon as you ask WHY, you stop yourself and others from laughing.
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Myths:
You have tobe happy to laugh.
Am I really happy enough to laugh here?
With all that is happening around us, how can we be happy?
We ARE happy because we laugh.
We feel better afterwards, not before.
We assume laughing people are happy.
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Laughter Starvation:
Sense of Humor = Laughter
Intellectual Process .. no agreement on what makes people laugh or is funny.
Yet, is Universal, it activates every organ system.
Laugh with anyone, even with an animal.
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Won't laugh until Science proves it is Healthy.
When we are sad, we cry.
We have lost touch with what makes us feel better.
Laughter is cathartic/purging/moving/eliminating ---
lack of control, moves you like a laxative, culture is constipated,
..... dreams are the excrement of the mind;
..... feces are the excrement of the body;
..... laughter is the excrement of the soul.
Status Quo locations NOT to laugh include the Main Street of many towns and cities, the waiting room of a doctor's office, ...
Kids are cathartic all the time ... crying, stress, pain, laughter ...
Churches based upon FEAR and GUILT are undermined by laughter.
We put something in babies mouths and jiggle them to stop them/divert them or drug them to deny pain. Pain is a friend. Catharsis handles pain.
What happens when you laugh?
- Moving: lose muscle control
- Open mouth
- Close eyes
- Breath deeply
- Tense/relax abdomen
- Rosy complexion (cardovascular dilates)
- Relaxation
- Connection between people (cosmic juice)
- Tear ducts activated
- NO talking
- Blood pressure lowers
- Heart rate goes up, down after.
Ridicule pushes people apart/divides them/makes you feel worse.
Laughter makes you feel better about yourself, if respected.
6 to 8 hours of meditation can be replaced with 15 min of laughter.
She lives on a sailboat, named, TeeHee.
"Ahoy, TeeHee"
4-yr-olds laugh 500 times daily.
Laughter oxygenates the blood.
Laughter encourages the body systems to work in harmony, synchronicity.
All cathartic activities are contagious.
If afraid of some Controlling factor, we will stop.
Indicators of catharsis include:
- Holding one's stomach
- Hiccups
- Sobing
- Coughing
- Throwing up
These actions jogs the internal organs, massages hem, and keeps them from drying up and shriveling.
Fake it till you make it, if necessary.
Reptilian mind doesn't know any different.
Diaphragm vibrates, like a car engine once started.
Lot of energy out .. face points upwards, then downwards ..
---- during laughter, anger, yawning, crying.
Frozen older faces:
Women tend to smile, yet have teeth hidden in a closed mouth.
--- developed through a role of taking care of others.
Men tend to frown or be blank.
--- developed through a role of taking responsibility for others.
The THYMUS Gland shrinks under stress/negative thoughts ..
When it doesn't work well, the immune system weakens, yet,
it increases in size if the muscles of the face are used.
If you keep that expression, it will freeze that way.
Reclaim your faces.
Tribes in New Guinea, TAP their thymus ..
Apes also do this when they are aroused and upset.
MeaCulpa is a sorority "I'm Guilty" met with thumping the thymus.
(undoing physically what the mouth/voice sets in motion!)
Thymus produces beta endorphins
Cortisol from laughter acts as an effective anti-inflammatory for arthritis.
Why make someone laugh?
.. only if we are uncomfortable with the pain of others, and, want them to laugh.
"To trigger laughter, take pain and play with it."
Charley Chaplin.
Universal Pain derives from Embarassment, raise tension.
Society uses "Should" to internal;ize the disparity between who we are and who the state wants us to be.
Steve Allen says what he thinks vs what we expect (painful/afraid).
Playful way of knocking our expectations out of the way.
--- Chaplin is dressed like a bum, yet, expresses perfect manners.
(playing with 2 extremes: reality vs expectations.
Share embarrassing moments with others in order to show that you are human, laugh about ..
Perfect people have poor relationships.
If embarassment is not laughed out, one is afraid to look others in the eye, with Trust.
Share your imperfections and feel closer to others.
Tell embarassing stories until they are no longer funny, then be able to take more risks.
Take the Risk to start Laughing.
Laughter without ridicule.
"Perhaps the mission of those who love mankind (humankind) is to make people laugh at the truth, to make truth laugh, because the only truth lies in learning to free ourselves from insane passion for the truth"
~ Aristotle
"Too often when we think we have found the truth we have only lost our sense of humor."
~ Noah benShea
RELIGIOUS TRUTHS
Taoism: Shit happens.
Confucianism: Confucius says, "Shit happens."
Buddhism: If shit happens, it is not really shit.
Zen-Buddhism: What is the sound of shit happening?
Hinduism: This shit happened before
Islam: If shit happens, it is the will of Allah
Protestantism: Let shit happen to someone else.
Catholicism: If shit happens, you deserve it.
Judaism: Why does shit always happen to us?
Atheism: Shit never happens.
Agnosticism: Shit?
~ Anonymous
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