Few people simply release their energy blocks and automatically begin a new constructive, productive, spiritually-guided life with access to their Higher Self. Remember that your Unconscious and your Ego have run the show for you until now.

If you have not acquired a dependable and easy, fast way of contacting your Higher Self and getting the answers you need, then know that only by reducing your negative stress patterns will you give yourself the opportunity to make that contact. How can you do this from the standpoint of balancing?

• Learn better communicating skills.
• Continue to release new presenting energy blocks.
• Use Astrology to learn about your basic personality.
• Motivate your Ego by acknowledging your basic personality.
• Reduce your anxiety and fear levels with psychic feedback.
• Now, progress to guidance from the Higher Self.

A Short List of Positive Skills.

Following Birth.

OK, you have prepared for the birth in such a way that your own biochemical pattern transmitted energy blocks will not be inherited. And you have picked an ideal spouse with the guidance of your Higher Self. Together you have developed good coping skills and this means that following the birth of your child she/he will have good models and mentors from which to gain energy block prevention attitudes and behaviors. Now what can you best do?

Consider the following:
1. Obtain a natal astrological chart of the new child;
2. Provide encouragement for the development of weaknesses into strengths;
3. Add rewards for the development of self-discipline to guide one's strengths;
4. Give feedback and evaluations for reward, encouragement and pacing.

When you decide to become a parent, you are also implicitly taking the responsibility of becoming a mentor to that new life. You do not have to be the only mentor but you cannot escape the fact that it will first learn to model the behaviors of those who are most near and observable.

To the extent that you make an effort to remove the energy blocks from her/his path and prepare her/him for the potential emergencies within an average life --- you also remove the facility for them to build new energy blocks from their experiences and exposures.

A delayed (as little as 2 years) marriage and a delayed pregnancy can now be the difference between a marriage of ecstasy and a marriage doomed; between a healthy, balanced, productive child, and, a hyperactive, slow maturing, and time squandering child.