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File: 08 - Seminar 1
Becoming Balanced.
Dramatic changes often yield dramatic life improvements.
When you have the freedom to take self-direction over your awareness, your dignity, and the responsibility behind your choices, just going along for the ride in life is selling life short.
A. Positive Self-Directedness, Positive Self-Motivation,
Positive Self-Control.
Balancing may result in an attraction of enlivening friends, relatives, and spouse.
Choice replaces co-dependent attraction. Freedom arises from respected identities.
- You become responsive and aware of the needs, feelings, and desires of others;
- Your communication is responsibly and tactfully honest, supportive and open;
- You no longer find any strong attraction to unhealthy behaviors or relationships;
- You become capable of empathy, compassion, reverence, no-emotion, listening;
- It becomes easy for you to express assertiveness, innovation, thoughtfulness;
- You find it getting easier to contact and request guidance from your Higher Self;
- It is easier to keep focussed for unbelievable success guided by your Higher Self.
Your capacity for improved communication skills, if acted on now with self-discipline, will greatly improve your productive effectiveness and remove many of the previous anxieties and frustrations from your life. Old patterns of defeat and loss will fade away.
B. Being a Winner: Positive Self-Esteem, Positive Self-Image,
Positive Self-Awareness, Positive Self-Expectancy,
Positive Self-Projection.
- You plan, delegate and share workloads, responsibilities and honors;
- You respond to others by acknowledging their communication style;
- You are assertive, aggressive, or passive according to relevancy;
- You are realistically hopeful, proactive, involved, humble, focussed;
- You set your goals with the continual guidance of your Higher Self;
- You are confident, open, trusting, honest, tactful, realistic, responsible;
- Contact with your Higher Self unites you with a universe and community of life.
Your dynamic responsive behavior and optimistic expectations may stimulate, challenge, or comfort others. They see you as truly caring, concerned, and
compassionate. Your strong moral sense is both appreciated, respected, and challenged, frequently, by others. Your involvement energizes you with enthusiasm, daring, independence, and true love for self and others.
December 17, 1997
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